Blair, Noel Edmonds and Sue Fraser
Has Tony Blair been reading this column? Remarkable to see him echoing my suggestions of two weeks ago when I suggested we take greater responsibility for our own healthcare. Just this week, to a gathering in Nottingham, the PM suggested: “people must take more responsibility for their health” to relieve pressure on the NHS.
What’s more, according to a BBC report, he said it was the job of ministers to “empower the individual, rather than command” saying that the NHS could be crippled by the cost of treating people affected by obesity, alcohol abuse and smoking. “Failure to address bad lifestyles was putting an increasing strain on the health service,” he added.
And taking a very holistic perspective, he is also reported to have said: “The truth is we all now pay a collective price for the failure to take shared responsibility. Health care could not just be about treating the sick, but helping people to live healthily, which required commitment from individuals, companies and the government.”
Can’t argue with that.
Other shock news this week emerged from the lips of Noel Edmonds, who on the Richard and Judy show, talked about his new book on the phenomenon of cosmic ordering and how he claims the success of his recent smash hit TV show (Deal or no deal) is all down to a cosmic order he placed when down on his luck.
What surprised me was his grasp of metaphysics when he said that if 10% of the viewers were to think positively, the country would be ungovernable by the morning – a view supported by his assertion that a negative population was easier to manage than the empowered populace Blair seems to have in mind. We’ll see.
Noel also mentioned that fact that his introduction to cosmic ordering – the latest personal growth fad of asking the cosmos to grant and deliver your wishes – came from his reflexologist. This got me thinking about the role of therapists and how they not only treat, but also tend to educate their clients, in their role as ‘light-workers’, bringing new, empowering and liberating ideas to those in need.
I met one such individual recently, Sue Fraser, pictured here holding my head. Sue has an amazing past, which I’ll go into. But I have to say, first and foremost, that her power of touch is outstanding. Held as I was for just a few minutes for the photo, I got good value! It’s lovely to he given that level of attention, but it’s even better when you’re in the capable hands of a gifted healer.
In conversation, I discovered how Sue realised her gift and found her vocation in helping particularly vulnerable clients.
“I originally experienced complementary therapies in 1987 when my life was falling apart,” Sue revealed. “I had 3 young children and a very abusive marriage. I was a victim, suffering from depression. My life up until this point was a history of abuse and pain, I had suffered enough.”
“I had booked an Aromatherapy treatment for a day, when looking back, I would have otherwise chosen to end my life,” Sue wnt on to say, “I don’t know how I made it to the appointment – I must have had a Guardian Angel looking after me that day. I turned up in a flood of tears, not knowing how I had managed to get there. I had no recollection of booking the appointment.”
“The therapist took me into her sanctuary and worked magic. She provided me with a safe space to crumble and fall apart. The combination of the treatment and the oils brought me back to reality. That therapist saved my life. At the end of the session she said she thought I would benefit from a few treatments, which I willingly agreed to.”
“This wasn’t someone solely out to make money, she really did have my best interests at heart. After a course of treatments she was so pleased at the way I had responded that she asked me if I would like to join her on an Aromatherapy course. Out of nowhere I said ‘Yes!’. I had found something that I really enjoyed and I wanted to know how to share it with others.”
I remember the first day of my course at the end of 1987. It was the first time I had sat in a circle and introduced myself. I went bright red and said ‘I’m no-one – just a mum’. Have I changed my mind now!!! I passed the course with distinction and became a qualified Aromatherapist .”
“Soon after the course ended I left my marriage and made a new home for myself and my 3 children. It was a long, hard road and the only housing available was on an estate for ‘problem families’. I accepted it because I needed to get away from the situation I was in.”
“Two years later I met and married my second husband and moved to Devon. That lasted 7 years. At the end of this marriage I promised myself that I would now find out who I really am. As if my life had been guided, I followed a new path. I trained as a Flower Essence Therapist at Findhorn in Scotland.”
“That was a cathartic experience for me, which helped me to explore my love for flowers and the ways in which they can help us to release all sorts of negativity, on many levels, in a very subtle and gentle manner. I also trained as an Advice Worker for a Disability organization and Plymouth Women’s Aid.”
“I felt that I had something to offer vulnerable people in particular. Since then I have set up and run a wholistic health centre, become a Reiki practitioner and a Colour therapist and teacher. “
“I am in the process of developing my own skincare products, ‘Essence of Light’, to use with my facials which combine essential oils and flower essences. I am concentrating on helping women to feel good and teaching them to nurture themselves with these treatments.”
“I teach a meditation and spiritual development group which will be starting on 2nd August in Newton abbot and I also run various workshops throughout the year.”
Sue describes herself as an “intuitive therapist” and will use any one, or a combination of, the therapies she is trained in whether it be aromatherapy, colour therapy, flower essence therapy or Reiki. She is also training as a facilitator for deep healing processes with something called the New Gaia Network.
If you want to savour Sue’s unique approach, you can book a treatment or enquire about classes and workshops by calling her on 07834 417 997.
